My only answer is faith that they are in a beautiful place filled with peace and an abundance of love. I know this will never fill the void left in the heart and soul of the grieving parent, but you were blessed with your child for a reason.  The time that we have with the ones we love is never in our control.  Open your heart and cherish the memories of the time you had together.  Honor them and if possible turn your grief into praise of their life.  

To all parents I suggest that you love your children with all of your heart and soul  EVERYDAY.  Never let a day go by that you don’t tell them how much you love them, never let a day go by that you don’t tell them how special they are.  Fill every moment so that you never question if they know how much they mean to you. 

To every grieving parent out there, I don’t know your pain but I know your fear and I know what this love feels like.  My heart goes out to you and I hope that you are able to find a strength inside of you that will help heal the wounds of your heart and soul.